June 04, 2010

Since when does trip prep involve a broken leg?

Oh my poor son! My first born. My brave young man. My Matthew broke his leg in two places and I was there to see his face. Can you ever erase that image from your mind?

(This photo was before the accident)

We went to Space Center Houston at NASA with his Tulsa cousins, who are in town for a visit. There were all these cool rides. We were just about to leave when Matthew had one last ride - on a bicycle attached to a hamster wheel thing. His feet were strapped in to the pedals and he was just finishing the ride and he pedaled forward when the momentum of the pedals was going backwards and his tibia and fibula, just above the ankle, broke in a forward motion. The operator was able to stop the ride before the break got worse, but that pain and panic I saw in his face was evident.

He was so brave as we went to the minor emergency clinic to get that confirmation X-ray. Today he got a splint on his leg and he will have to get a cast when we get to Ireland. He is being a big boy about it all, I am so impressed with his brave spirit, I can see a glimpse of the man he will become.

I called the airline to request a wheelchair.

And so real life goes.

Our children are breakable.

27 comments:

  1. Oh no!!!!!! Sending good thoughts to you both & hope the healing is fast :)

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  2. oh poor thing! It's so hard to see our kiddos in pain. I took my youngest on an airplane trip with a wheelchair this spring. It was a smart decision.... hugs to all of you

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  3. Oh no, poor kid! Sending healing thoughts and prayers.

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  4. OMG!! How sad. But alas he is a boy and this is one great "What did you do on summer vacation?" story to tell when he returns to school. I can image your heart ache though when you seen the look on his face. Sending healing prayers....

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  5. OH no! So sorry! Hopefully swimming wasn't on your list of things to do in Ireland! Praying he is better soon!

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  6. Oh Shona! I know the 'look' you're talking about. It makes my stomach literally hurt and no, you can never erase it from your mind. The Barnes Crew will be praying. Poor guy! Tell Matthew that Gabriel and Harrison will be praying for him. Hugs friend.

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  7. Lifting him up in prayer, Quick recovery...And a calm & comfort over the mama! Blessing, Deborah

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  8. oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this news :( poor thing, I shall indeed be praying for you

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  9. The last line you wrote just greives my heart so. My daughter was recently diagnosed with juvenile diabetes and I have never been so vulnerable.

    Love and hugs to you and your boy.

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  10. Oh my goodness!!! wish you all well - these things happen so suddenly, and yes always awful to realise how "fragile" they/we are...
    Gena D
    Thinking Aloud

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  11. Yikes! Was there any sort of warning on the ride?

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  12. Oh no! Praying for quick healing for his leg and smooth travel for you all.

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  13. What a horrible thing to have happened! Poor kid... hope his recovery goes smoothly.

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  14. Poor kid! And poor mom to have that image burned into your brain! My prayers for you both for a speedy recovery.

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  15. How horrible! What a way to end a vacation! And to wirtness it as well! My prayers are with you and your son.May he recover soon.I remember a horrible accident 10 years ago that my 2 youngest were in - the Whirl about (have blocked out the name!) collapsed at the CNE in Toronto. We were heading out and the kids begged for one more ride. I still get nightmares and I refuse to go on rides to this day (the kids are a different story - they still love them!)

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  16. Oh my...I remember when Amy's brother (my baby) fell out of a tree. He was about Matthew's age. I so know how you feel. Will be praying.

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  17. oh no the poor thing..but lads are accident prone thats part of them growing up..so far no broken bones in our house but plenty of bruises! hope he is ok for the trip

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  18. Yikes!!! Wishing him quick healing and wishing you sympathy.

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  19. Oh my dear, I am praying for his quick recovery! I am so thankful it was not worse!!

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  20. I'm so sorry! That sounds terrible. I will definitely be keeping you and your son in my thoughts and prayers. I hope he is able to have a quick recovery!

    mythoughtsandtreasures.blogspot.com

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  21. Oh...how awful to watch happen...we always trust that children will not get hurt in those situations. I love how you got a glimpse of the "man he will become." Yes, indeed, they are breakable...

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  22. I am so sorry to know this! My best wishes to your son.. I hope he gets well real soon...

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  23. Oh, oh, OH!!!!! Your poor son. I am so sorry-- for all of you. I hope he has an easy and complete recovery.
    jj

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  24. poor matthew! your mom met jaime yesterday and told him the unfortunate news :(
    he's being so brave about it...
    we wish him a speedy healing process... and a safe journey to dublin next week.
    Vx

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  25. Oh Shona, I can't even imagine! I am so sorry for both of you...for hsi physical pain and your mental. I am cringing at the thought of witnessing my children going through something like that...and yet, as you mentioned, they are breakable. May he get better so quickly and we mothers be able to handle it as we are equipped to do.

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  26. Oh my goodness Shona! How scary for poor Matthew and you too! I'm glad they were able to stop the ride.

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  27. OH, my stomach just did a drop flip flop for you both!!
    Sending hugs and a speedy recovery for the brave young man!!

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